I have officially decided on our little boy's name. (Let the monogramming begin!--totally kidding.)
I have known for a long time that if it was a boy (and I knew he was a boy, in my heart, all along) that I would use 'Thomas' and 'Alexander.' I just did not know in what order. Obviously, his first name, Thomas, is named after his daddy. His middle name, Alexander, was named by his dad last year!
I remember vividly that Thomas, Caroline and I went to eat (for the first time) at Rick's Iron Skillet in Fayetteville for breakfast after church. (We had planned to go to Denny's with all of our friends and family from church, but we forgot that Bikes, Blues and Barbecue was just ending that day and they had taken over most of the breakfast places in town! So we were at Rick's. We had wanted to try it for a while, so it was a good second option.)
Randomly, I was not pregnant...yet, Thomas said, "If we have a boy, I want to name him Alexander." I was surprised that he had been even thinking about names, but I totally agreed that it was a great name.
So after the accident, I knew it was a boy and I knew I would use Alexander (Daddy Thomas' name is Allen and so they have the same initials!) I just wasn't sure in what order to use the names. After a few prayers and a few days, it just stuck with me. It has to be Thomas Alexander. It sounds great and it brings me comfort and excitement to call our baby Thomas (or "LT" for Little Thomas as Uncle Travis is calling him.) Caroline already pats my belly says his name very clearly. She also prayed (on her own volition) for baby Jett and baby Thomas a few nights ago.
Our church put on an awesome Easter extravaganza for the kids. It is so fun at this age. She loves it all. (After posting this I have vowed not take any more pics from the side.)
Yeah! Thomas Alexander is going to be one very loved little boy!
ReplyDeleteI love the name-it's perfect. I also love how you showed his name on the Easter eggs! Very creative.
ReplyDeleteLOVE the name!!!! so perfect :)
ReplyDeleteand i LOVE you!!!!
thinking and praying for you, caroline and thomas alexander :)
A great name!
ReplyDeleteLove it!! My fav is the egg picture w/your belly!! Precious! I think about you often and pray! It is great to "see" you!!
ReplyDeleteYou know Lesli and Kelli and I are all here in Fort Smith, so when you come to town, we should all get together and let our kiddos play!!!
That is a wonderful name! And August 28 is my son's birhtday! He'll be one. I love the pic with the egg on your tummy - so cute! Praying for continued peace and you and Caroline keep moving forward.
ReplyDeleteRuthie
I love it! Thomas Alexander is the perfect name for your little guy!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful name for a baby boy who will be so beautiful! He will be so loved and will be taken care of by his daddy even though he's in Heaven. You're still in my prayers!
ReplyDeleteWhat a neat way to introduce his name...I love it! We are praying for you, Caroline, and now we can pray for your little boy by his name.
ReplyDeleteI know I don't "know" you, but I was secretly hoping you would name him Thomas. And LT, so cute!
ReplyDeleteThe egg picture with your belly made me cry.
What a great name... so fitting adn so beautiful! It sounds so strong! I love the pictures with the bellies and eggs! How adorable! I love seeing you smile. I know you are grieving but at the same time the JOY of the Lord is clearly your sole strength. Blessings,
ReplyDeleteSarah
I love it! Cute Egg pictures too! I see you are making GREAT use of "volition" too, I think that is so sweet that she prayed for the babies!
ReplyDeleteI love the name! I had a feeling you would use "Thomas" in some way! "Big Thomas" left behind a wonderful legacy for "Little Thomas" and he'll grow up knowing he was named after an honorable man of God!
ReplyDeleteA wonderful name and beautiful tribute. May God richly bless you and your sweet babies.
ReplyDeleteWhat a magnificent name! I will continue to pray for all of you; now I have name to pray for your sweet baby.
ReplyDeleteChristy in Arizona
Yay! Great name! You may not remember this, but I remember talking to you about baby names back when I was just barely pregnant with Vivi. We were at Todd's wedding reception and we both talked about how we each loved the name Thomas for a little boys name. I'm glad you're getting a chance to actually use it! He will be a blessed little boy with a mommy as firm as you are in your beliefs and love for the Lord. I pray for you everyday and think of you more than that!
ReplyDeleteExcellent choice of name! I know that he will wear his daddy's name proudly.
ReplyDeleteContinuing to pray for you and your family.
I love the picture with the egg! You need to mate and frame that photo for his room. I pray his name and his legacy will be one that brings you hope, comfort, and years of joy. There is no doubt that little Thomas will be a blessing in the flesh and that his daddy will live on through him. I believe this because I see one just like him through my nephew. When God takes away he always gives back. God is good all the time; all the time God is good!
ReplyDeleteLove the name!!! Now just tell Thomas Alexander to be born on August 28 because he and Xander will share the same birthday!! :) Lol. Great pics also!! Thinking of you and praying for you, Caroline, and Thomas Alexander.
ReplyDeletePS: We started a blog for Xander. ;)
Roxy and Jeff Smith
Perfect!!
ReplyDeleteHis daddy is incredibly proud, I'm sure!!
I love the name. I was secretly hoping for a Thomas. :) (I have always loved that name anyway...tried really hard to get Joshua to be "Tomas", the Spanish version) I also love how God orchestrated it that you and Thomas would have this impromptu converation about names long before little Thomas was even forming. What a beautiful gift. I love the pictures too. See you soon!
ReplyDeleteI love the belly pics with the eggs, they are so cute! :)
ReplyDeletePERFECT!!!! I love it so much and I love little Thomas Alexander and precious Caroline Marie too!!
ReplyDeleteLove it! I've been wondering....Griffin's bday is Aug. 26th! They could be birthday buddies. Love you.
ReplyDeleteI love the name and the egg on the belly pictures are so sweet!
ReplyDeleteWhat a blessing God is giving you in a baby boy. I love his name.
ReplyDeleteYou look beautiful.
I just prayed for you and your daughter.
I'm in awe of our great God how he comforts and heals. I'm praying that for you today.
Kelly in Michigan
I love it. What an honor and what a wonderful example baby Thomas will have to walk in. My son's name is Thomas as well. Blessings!!
ReplyDeleteBonnie,
ReplyDeleteYou and your family have been on my heart and mind this weekend. God bless you. I will pray for you right now.
I love the name! The Easter eggs are very cute!
ReplyDeleteI love the name, Bonnie! Greg has a little cousin named Alexander and I have always thought it was such a great name.
ReplyDeleteSuch a great name! Can't wait to see pictures of Little Thomas in late August!
ReplyDeleteI loooove the belly shots with the eggs! Soooo cute!
ReplyDeleteLooks like you had a great Easter. I love the name!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful name for a sweet baby boy!!
ReplyDeleteBonnie, I found your blog a few months ago and I love it. I have kept you in my prayers. Your little girl is beautiful.
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The name is perfect! We don't know each other but I somehow knew that this baby would be a Thomas.
ReplyDeletePraying for you, Caroline and little Thomas Alexander!
Bonnie,
ReplyDeleteI think I told you before but I don't know for sure; I knew Thomas' Dad when he worked at St. Edward in Fort Smith. His brother Skipper was a close friend of my daughter Margie
Weller.
God moves in mysterious ways; just this week you have been on my mind and in my prayers frequently and I kept thinking I wanted to hear from you how you were doing, etc. Then Keisha Newberry (my grand daughter-in-love; I don't say law),
posted about you on her blog.
I pray for you so often as I know thousands of people do. I have my prayer list on my frig and I go there pretty often and each time the people get prayed for.
I love the name you have picked for your precious son; he will be so proud someday to realize he carries daddy's name.
I pray you GGT Test turned out good this time.You'll have to excuse the Nana that is how I blog with Keisha and Allen.
Sincerely
Sarah Weller